I am in my 20s, married to an absolutely wonderful man. He is poly, I have historically not but I am in a place in life where I am willing to try, more so than I have before. I strongly prefer a platonic, friendly relationship prior to the start of anything romantic.

I am a feminist, kinky, open-minded, heteroflexible woman with intense liberal leanings. I enjoy intellectual conversations but often need to take some time to process my own thoughts on a subject. It leaves me quiet for a while until I develop my position. The positions I am passionate over I will argue to the death.

I am what my husband refers to as a "drag extrovert." I function perfectly well in social situations and, most of the time, present as somewhat of an extrovert. In reality, I am most happy by myself or with a few trusted people. I have an anxiety disorder that I handle fairly well around strangers and acquaintances, I can count on one hand the number of people who have witnessed one of my panic attacks. However, this is part of who I am and influences some of the decisions I make in my social sphere.

Despite transferring to the ICU step-down unit in my hospital, I still define myself as a hospice nurse and probably always will. Hospice is where I started right out of school and caring for dying patients and their families has informed a large part of my world view. It gives a remarkable perspective on life and I am always happy to talk about my experiences with interested parties.

I got into healthcare because of an urge to emulate my grandmother. She was the single most compassionate and caring human being I have ever met. For me, the happiness of the people around me is the ultimate goal. I firmly believe that big gestures are not always necessary to make people happy, in fact the small, impulsive things mean the most.

I am a geek. I love to read, enjoy comic books and video games (though am less versed in these than I would like). Discussions on Doctor Who are always likely to spark my attention.

I love meeting new people and try to always have a smile on. I am definitely looking for some kinky, entertaining, geeky, feminist and liberal people to meet.

Of note, please do not use terms of endearment when messaging me. I am not your sweetheart, babe or honey and will be offended if you choose to call me that. Most likely, I will simply not respond. Sometimes, I may get punchy.